Controlling Emotions – It’s a Long Term Rollercoaster

Hello everyone,

This weekend for many you will be going in to your second game of the season, and everyone had a different experience during their first game.

Firstly, youth sports are not the environment for comparing individuals against each other. These comparisons are an adult outlook based on their present perception and ‘adult world’ views of being results orientated, and not looking at the youth player as being a youth themselves.

There are many factors which contribute to a youth players rate of development and current playing level:

  • Age – chronological, biological, and sports.
  • Club philosophy – winning vs development
  • Incorrect bracketing of teams – wins to boost egos and recruiting, focus on bracket level than playing level again for marketing

In terms of age, we went in to this in more detail at the recent education night, and this can be read up on in the presentation that followed.

Everything is age relevant, including how a player plays on the field. At the youngest ages seeing kids cram to the ball is not a huge problem, this actually shows the confidence to want the ball in a game, and they are a child they want to play and not stand around. It’s true that creating width, depth and space are attacking principles, and are important when maturing through the older youth age groups with increased game insight, understanding, and specific player roles and responsibilities.

It is easy for us to get carried away when a team wins, and for others to get down when defeated, but this emotional reaction is based on a short term result. Controlling these emotions, and giving the kids the space needed to play, think for themselves, and be the decision makers on the field, will benefit them for the long term, and not the short term result.

As covered in the welcome meeting, players will play in multiple positions whether they are strong in that position or not. Everyone will experience going in goal, for at least a half of a game. All players are given equal playing time as best possible no matter their level of play. This is only made possible by not focusing on winning, as it allows coaches the needed freedom to make decisions for the benefit of the player and not so a team wins a game.

Our teams will also not exceed a 6 goal difference, as some witnessed this past weekend the team will then play a game within itself to control the scoreline. This isnt because we don’t like winning, it’s because we are in the youth environment and while Fremont is out main focus we are also aware of our role to other kids at other clubs to be role models and encourage the game and sprit for everyone to enjoy.

You will experience many different results throughout the season, and Competitive soccer is an opportunity for players to be coached by qualified staff, and not a win at all cost program. Embrace the process of development, the long term model works for not just technical development, but all four pillars including social, physical, and psychological development.

With the past few weeks being incredibly busy the weekly reviews will be written up shortly and posted on our website for your viewing. If you have any questions about the program please feel free to reach out to me, I am always happy to help educate and discuss our philosophy.

Join Us at Street Eats, 8/17

Tonight you will find us at the Fremont Street Eats, drop by to say hello, and take part in plenty of the fun games they have going on around the venue, and indulge in some great food offerings.

More Than Soccer

This weekend an incredible World Cup came to an end, a fantastic tournament of surprise results and shock performances.

During the tournament England’s Fabian Delph welcomed his child in to his life, and a moment of class from Gareth Southgate insisted that Delph return home during the tournament to be with his wife and new born child.

Southgate said: “The thought process is some things in life are more important than football”. His wife is due to go into labor. This is a big tournament, but family is more important. At times like this, players who are family orientated should be supported by us”.

At the biggest soccer tournament in the World, a key player was released for a family moment. This is something we are now seeing that is missing in youth soccer. Tournaments and travel games being more important than moments in a child’s life, missing family events and childhood experiences.

We are all passionate about soccer, and as a club we will do everything we can to support the soccer development of Fremont players, but there must be balance and an environment for kids to develop as human beings.

Kids First, Avoid FOMO

Every year we pull parents in to the office and explain our philosophy, and how we are different by not getting swept up in the crazyness that has become youth sports.

Christian Pulisic is arguably the first US international superstar player, and it’s an incredibly difficult road to get there. But the following segment from 60 Minutes is refreshingly enlightening to know not to get swept up by the travel and the additional individual specialized coaching. Let the kids play, stop jumping from club to club, and them emphasis is on the individual to want to push to be at the highest level. Talent Identification is not identifying teams and championships, it’s about the individual.

Skip ahead to the final part of the program – https://www.cbs.com/shows/60_minutes/video/nTbhew6uBE1AR_mYgiY3JepJdbUnRPOs/redemption-voyagers-the-young-american/

Being in a free to play creative environment brings out the best in a player. It’s then the players desire and hardwork away from practice that can put them on to a pathway of playing at a high level.

NB: FIFA rules do not allow players under the age of 18 to move countries to play soccer, unless you have dual citizenship or a parent moves for a non-soccer reason.

WC 2018 Finals – Business End

We are now at the crucial stage of the World Cup, the Finals. Wales have politely obliged to let the other countries around the world have a chance of winning and chose not to qualify. So now to make our pick –

Belgium

We love their development program for their players all the way from grassroots to senior…

“It was a massive shift but we believed that 4-3-3, at that moment, was the strongest learning environment for our players,” Browaeys says. “We felt that we had to develop dribbling skills, we said at the heart of our vision was 1v1, the duel. We said when a boy or girl wants to start playing football, you must offer first the dribble, let them play freely.” Belgium Blueprint

… and Lukaku is representing Man Utd with some fantastic performances.

Also a shout out for Sweden! and then Croatia!… whoever England play.

Enjoy the remaining few rounds of the Competition, enjoy it as a fan, embrace the skill on display, and become the creative little players of your idols on display.